Thanks again for the get well wishes. I am feeling much better today. I haven't taken any medicine today because I don't like how it makes me feel, but I am feeling ok without it.
So, has anyone ever taken one of those quizzes to see what their "love language" is? I did and I can't say that I am surprised by the result.
It says..."Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate. Luckily, this love language is one of the easiest to learn.
If you want to become an effective gift giver, many mates will have to learn to change their attitude about money. If you are naturally a spender, you will have no trouble buying gifts for your mate. However, a person who is used to investing and saving their money may have a tough time adjusting to the concept of spending money as an expression of love. These people must understand that you are investing the money not in gifts, but in deepening your relationship with your mate.
The gift of self is an important symbol of love. Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, going through the same trials and experiencing the same things. Your body can become a very powerful physical symbol of love.
These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money. Free, frequent, expensive, or rare, if your mate relates to the language of receiving gifts, any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in your relationship."
This isn't the first time I've taken this quiz and I got the same result. I was the only person in the room who got this language. Does this make me a materialistic person? A bad person?
It is right on the dot about me. I do love gifts even gifts of affection. I can't wait for Fred to take the quiz.
Have you taken this quiz? If so, what is your love language? (now you have to say "love language" in your most seductive voice)
P.S. It's exactly four months from my birthday!!! In case you wanted to start shopping for me now. ;)